woodwoowell since this is the season of greetings..no wait season of love, i shall post about wat i think love really is in my view of point or is it point of view..wahtever it is, many people view love in many ways and after my years of research, i have come up wiht a few theories..wait la i am about to go there right..why so rush for wat..good things must wait

ok first theory is of course like everyone know, its love at first sight...whereby u see this person and you KNOW and FEEL deep inside, he or she is the one that you MUST spend you whole life with..one thing about lvoe at first sight is that both party must experience it...both the guy and the girl must feel the same way when they first met..so if u like see this girl and you some how feel that you must get to know this girl but the girl look at you AND dont feel the same..its called attraction love which i will say next..of course there's like love at first sms which happens when u sms and then know that the connection is not only through the hp but also through the heart..there's also love at first conversation like how martha kent met jonathan kent in smallville..so far i believe that love at first sight happens in movies only...no i dont mean u see a girl in the movie thearthre...how to see also? so dark can see meh?...what i mean aiyah u all know wat i mean la...they say you dont belive until u see it yourself...i dont see it happening around me so such stuffs is still in the movies

next is attraction love...like i say, you look at this girl and say "wah so chio, must call the police cos she just stole my heart" but the girl look at you and thought u are another ordinary male in the urban jungle...thats attraction love...that happens alot around me and sad to say most of such relationship dont really last long...that because if u see another prettier girl..then your gf is not as pretty as she look and you must make another phone call to the police cos your heart have been found and stolen agian...in other words..such relationships can be considered crushes in my opinion...where by the girl get crushed after u decided to break up wiht her to chase another prettier one or where u get crushed...eitherway people end up getting hurt

well, personally, i think a relationship that last long is one where the begining is long enouhg...wat i'm trying to say that people should get to know each other better first..find out each other good point and bad point and not rushing into things...if u rush into things, not only u hit a brick walll thats if u are driving but u end up hurt...lets say wah this girl so chio...then you find out she got a damn bad habit after proposing to her like using the toothpaste as soap...you will say to yourself "wah lao anticlimax, if i know i wont propose sia"..see wat i mean? ya la why rush man...its not like the world gonna end tml right! sekali really end tml..wah touch steel...tis not like a dinosaur gonna tear singapore apart right...anyway if a dinosaur was to appear, super man is here dont worry *unbutton shirt revealing a sign*..HAHAH, but now i;m in smallville so dont know can fly there fast...BUT STILL THERE's no rush right? unless another guy is chasing the same girl..then good luck to you bro...NO LA, if got another guy chasing...whats the rush still, its not like the girl gonna die anytime soon from any disease...if she is, then maybe u can try considering another choice la or still love her to the end, yeah i can hear you all say awww how sweeet...anyway last thing dont rush can or not?basket u think rush hour jackie chan?

a few things that is impt to a lifetime lasting relationship is communication and trust...trust need to be build slowly and cant be built in just one day like rome...thats why you need to slowly get to know each other better and build the trust...you must also be able to communicate wiht one another very well...of course nowadays with msn all you can communicate wiht errone very well but when i say communicate wiht one another very well means that you two can talk aobut anything and everything under the sun and the moon and stars in the sky...ya la where else ohter than the sky

lastly, we need to go to a few test before we get into the relationship...we need to KNOW that we like the person, then we need to FEEL that we like the person then lastly we need to NEED the person...its no use just by knowing you like the person...wats the use of knowing u like the person? this only means that you made up your mind on one thing and knowing that you like the person...you need to feel also..feel deep inside that you like him or her...knowing something could also means that you can forget aobut it...but feelings last longer, lastly you need to NEED the person..you can feel for the guy and girl all you wnat but if u dont need him in your life, then its pretty useless...not saying u pretty ok..need as in pussycatdolls-stickwitu those type get it? like nobody treat me better, i'ma stickwitu forever like that...yeah exactly wat u thinking right now, like a cheesecake needing cheese..so wat i feel is that one need to KNOW,FEEL,NEED the person before going into a relationship...afterall u can need the person but not feel anything, that makes the person a hotline to watever u need him or her for

ok thats page one of my theory of L.O.V.E..LO LO LO VE, wat i got to stop hearing that song.. anyway happy valentine's day! abit early but WAH LAO I in indo no internet right! you all can laugh all u want but watch till i get back! all those who dont have a date, never worry! go watch a movie la maybe can get love at first sight...kidding lehz...to those who dont ahve a date dont worry! we are all in one unsinkable ship! who knows u may find someone on the ship that you KNOW,FEEL, NEED...get wat i mean..so dont commit suicide...yes put that knife and spoon of poison down...cos like chloe said in smallville which i blog last time " something are worth the wait"...yeah somethings are worth the wait.../chill

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